About Me

I was born in the early 70s.  For the majority of my life, I was guided by a history of self-doubt and blurred boundaries with those around me.  In this new season of my life, I am deeply passionate about healing my inner child, practicing self-love, the journey of self-discovery, personal growth, and establishing and maintaining healthy boundaries with those around me.  As I've evolved my mindset and healed from an emotionally challenging and dysfunctional childhood, my unwavering faith in God has granted me an indescribable sense of peace—a priceless gift, and I am infinitely grateful. 

I am blessed beyond measure. I'm happily married to my wonderful, handsome, emotionally intelligent, God-sent husband of 6+ years.  We live in Florida with our beautiful fur babies, Raven and Mia. I am also the mother of a talented and creative adult son. Currently, we are estranged.  

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In 2019, at 48 years old, I experienced a profound mid-life awakening. I made the courageous decision to finally listen to and follow my heart—God—instead of basing my life decisions on the negative and unsupportive opinions of others, the naysayers, especially my mother and a few others in my close circle. I left my comfort zone and moved nearly 1,000 miles away from everything and everyone I knew to start my life anew with my husband of one year. For the first time, I completely trusted myself and God and prioritized my happiness. Realizing I only had one life to live and was approaching fifty, I decided I wouldn’t waste another moment living for others.

In 2017 (but technically 2016), God answered my prayers and blessed me with a man whose love for me is genuine, deep, and undeniable. God sent him into my life when I was 46 and ready for a change. I wasn't happy and fulfilled in my life.  With God's guidance, my husband's support, and wisdom, I chose to live my life for myself and my happiness.  We got married after eight months of dating.  Him being sent into my life was all divinely guided by God, I have no doubt.

Embarking on a deep journey of self-discovery, emotional, and spiritual healing, I began to shed my people-pleasing tendencies. In isolation, I re-programmed and shifted my mindset, learning to put myself first without guilt and shame. As I grew and healed, I started losing and letting go of the people, places, and things that no longer aligned with my healing journey. Ignoring the negative reactions and criticisms from others—mainly from family and closest friends—caused upheaval in those relationships. Some were angry and confused when I started choosing myself first, yet I continued to listen to my heart and learned to tame my emotions.  I trusted my intuition, limited my contact with those who didn’t support my growth, and silenced the outside noise.

This path of self-discovery and healing has been transformative, giving me a deeper understanding of myself and my life’s purpose. I now recognize that God chose me to be the generational cycle breaker in my emotionally unhealthy family system. Through my example, I am healing and paving the way for lasting change in my family's lineage.

This website is where I share the lessons I’ve learned and still learning on my healing journey, and support those who feel stuck, unhappy, unfulfilled, and ready to put in the work to change their lives and live a happier, peaceful, and purposeful life. It is God's plan and purpose in my life, to continue evolving as a woman of deep and unshakeable faith, a wife, and a content creator, inspiring others to dig deep within, embark on their own healing journeys, embrace personal growth, and live a purposeful, peaceful life they love.  

Scroll below to see glimpses of my soft and peaceful life in pictures and videos.

Thank you for taking the time to stop by!  If anything on my website inspired you, please DM me on Instagram or Pinterest and let me know, I would greatly appreciate it!  My social media links are at the bottom of this page.  Have the most amazing day or night, whichever time of day it is for you.  Peace & Blessings.  Mrs. B💫